Finally some answers...

Today Parker has an appointment with a pediatric neurologist.  We've started the process of having him assessed a year and a half ago and the referral for the neurologist went in last year at the end of September.  It took me calling to get the appontment.  Otherwise we'd still be on the waiting list.  The school psychologist  diagnosed him with dysgraphia and beleives there might also be dyspraxia.  That would tie all his physical and speech challenges together and make sense of everything.